Are you a bully?...

Are you a bully?... you might not think you are but you might be. if you hurt others to try and feel better about yourself then that could be classified as being a bully. i am not saying that bullies are people who want too needlessly hurt others, but are also hurt themselves. i am a victim and a bully so i can understand both sides. but the reason why i was a bully was because i was not confident in myself. and i was bullied and hurt at home. bullies themselves are usually victims too. they maybe bullied at home or at school. maybe because of peer pressure or some other reason. but bullies and victims are two sides of the same coin in my perspective.

how too help?...

How too help?... there r many different ways you can help a friend or someone you know who is being bullied. One way is too talk about it with them. they may not want to so do not pressure them about it. when they are ready they will tell you. plus do not confront the one who is the bully, it will most likely make things worse for the other person. remember if they need help they will let you know. it might not be clear at first but they will tell you.

what should be done...

What should be done... about people you see bullying others? One thing you could do is tell an adult... especially if it is at school. If you think it will make you look like a Snitch... it will not. if someone gives you a hard time about it... do not listen too it. you did the right thing.

When life seems hard...

When life seems hard... do not wish for it to end, but wish for life to begin. There may be times when it may seem that life is pointless and that death seems the best way to go, but it is not. A lot of you who read this might think that he does not understand, but I do. When i was growing up i was bullied by my family and at school. I used to get picked on for my height, my ethnicity, and the way i looked. I used to get into fights quite often too when in elementary school. That still did not help. i tried to end it all, but that did not help either. some of you may judge me, or others. But i ask you to look to yourself and ask yourself why you judge others. what is broken in (me) you that makes you want to do all of this. it may seem dumb to some but it can actually help you find what is upsetting you.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!?

my life seems so crazy right now i don't know what to do? i have a friend i would give my life for and it seems that i have given her my soul instead. i must protect her with my life at all cost even if from herself.I WOULD DIE FOR HER IF NECESSARY!! i love her with all my being but we can not be together. I SHALL NOT LET ANYTHING BAD HAPPEN TO HER WHILE I STILL DRAW BREATH!! i hope those who read this blog would do the same for the ones you love.

what is life?

is life just an excuse to live to die? or is it something more? who is the one to say what we should do or not do with our lives? is it right to take our own lives 'cause we can? or to suffer and die slowly?

Stand- up

The other day I saw some people bullying another person. I did not like what i was seeing so I went over to see if I could do anything to help the victim. when I got over to them I asked if everything was OK. The victim did not answer but the agressor did. He said that it did not concern me and I should walk away before something bad would happen to me. I did not want anything bad to happen but when he said that i could not walk away for fear of what might happen to the victim. So I stayed their with the victim and the bully finaly left. the victim said thanks and i replied back never let someone walk over you again... stand-up for yourself. but never start with violence.